In my head some days I really wonder why we all bother to try so hard.  Whether it is friendships or relationships they just should not be so hard.  I am finding that the older I get the less I care about it all.  I feel like I have the people in my life that matter and the other people... well I just dont care.  I am truly starting to dislike facebook and the constant updates on what each person does each day.... do you all really think people care that much?  If they do maybe they need a hobby... but then again in this day and age some queer a** probably thinks that is their hobby.  Does it really better anyones lives?  I doubt it.  The truth is more often than not people are using it to "one up" one another and that really doesn't make anyone feel better.  I find it funny that we profess our love for our husbands and boyfriends on this freaking site just so we can make our friends jealous or let everyone know just how great our life is.... well if your life was really that great then just live it and stop trying to keep up with the preverbial "Jones"  ugh... I would say I am sorry but I am really not... I have fallen into the dramatic BS in the past but I am happy to say that I will not any longer.  I dont care if I have to delete every one I am starting to clean house because the truth is the people who matter will be there and the people who dont well who really cares where they end up...